Wilbur (Wants to Kill Himself) [2003] (REGION 1) (NTSC)


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That rare thing, decency, shines out of Wilbur (Wants to Kill Himself), a wonderful and dark-humored comedy about a would-be suicide. The depressive Wilbur (Jamie Sives) is the opposite of his big-hearted brother, Harbour (Adrian Rawlins), yet he remains irresistible to women--including Harbour's new live-in girlfriend.

Director Lone Scherfig uses the grey-skied Edinburgh location in much the same way she did her native Denmark in the terrific Italian for Beginners; the gloomy setting belies the vaguely magical things that might happen to the characters. Scherfig knows just how to balance different tones (and in a comedy about a suicidal man, she has to), and she's great with actors, even in small roles. Special standouts here are the beaming Rawlins and Danish actor Mads Mikkelsen (King Arthur), as a stoical, chain-smoking doctor. How nice it is to see a movie that makes you feel good without coming on all icky about it. --Robert Horton



Odd...
Review date: 2008-11-07 Rating: 8 out of 10

Christ! At time this film can be horribly depressing....but is pebble-dashed with get moments of comedy (especially the scene in the restaurant)just as some bad news has been broken. It's bleak, odd and very touching. A story of 2 brothers who run a book shop. Wilber wants to kill himself most of the time whilst his brother does all the work. Romance blossoms with the arrival of a mother and her child as well as the supporting cast of oddballs and misunderstood people, including the rather hostile and dysfunctional suicide group. It's certainly not a laugh a minute film but it's a great drama and has plenty of dark, funny moments.


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An emotionally complex, poignantly subdued, captivating film
Review date: 2006-10-23 Rating: 8 out of 10

Wilbur (Wants to Kill Himself) is an emotionally complex film that is, I suspect, subject to a wide range of reactions. I am somewhat bothered by several aspects of the story as it played out in dramatic fashion, yet I still loved the movie. There is just something magical and ethereal about the film's atmosphere and characters that make it endearing -even during its most emotionally troubling moments. It's hard to even classify this film in terms of genre, for it is both everything and nothing. For me personally, it's a drama with just a few touches of dark comedy, but some will regard it as more of the latter. Wilbur did not make me feel good or necessarily glad to be alive; its poignancy left me rather subdued, actually. But - and this is the important part - it certainly made me feel something that stayed with me after the end credits rolled.

One thing this film doesn't do is to take you inside the mind of a suicidal individual. Wilbur's several attempts at suicide are sort of just there - they aren't funny, yet they are hard to take seriously (with one exception), and his behavior in general suggests very little about the seriousness of his intentions. More importantly, we never learn why he is suicidal - although one possible clue emerges midway through the film. I never grew to like or dislike Wilbur (Jamie Sives) to any strong degree. I found his brother Harbour (Adrian Rawlins) much more fascinating and a much stronger character. Harbour is one of the few true good guys in the world, the nucleus of his family. Having cared for their father until his recent death, he now struggles to keep open the family book store and take care of his suicidal brother. Enter the waiflike Alice (Shirley Henderson), a single mother who comes to the book shop to sell the books that patients' families leave behind in the hospital (where she works as a cleaning lady), and her sweet daughter Mary (Lisa McKinlay). Harbour and Alice soon marry, and even with the emotional wildcard that is Wilbur, it looks like a truly happy ending is in the works.

This is no fairy tale, however, and the cruel hand of Fate steps in to change these characters' futures dramatically. As this is happening, the emotional interconnections between all of the main characters grow and evolve in really complex ways. I have some personal objections to the story as it evolves after this point, but I find myself quite unable to stand in judgment of these truly human characters, especially with the ending playing out as it does.

Wilbur (Wants to Kill Himself), honored with numerous film festival awards, is a beautiful film - and Lone Scherfig's directorial prowess is made manifest by the fact that few artists could have pulled such a film off. If Wilbur (Wants to Kill Himself) were truly a dark comedy (at least in terms of my definition of the genre), the film would not have worked at all - nor would an exaggerated sense of melodrama have done anything but skewer the film's effectiveness. Scherfig guides this emotionally complex story with the most subtle of directorial hands, helped along immeasurably by standout performances all around - especially by Adrian Rawlins and Shirley Henderson. This is definitely a movie worth seeing.


Brothers
Review date: 2006-05-24 Rating: 8 out of 10

Wilbur (a wry, sad Jamie Sives) wants out of Life in a bad way and he tries several ways to accomplish his goal: pills, head in oven, slit wrists but he never quite succeeds often due to his personal angel and brother Harbour (a terrific Adrian Rawlins).
Director and screenwriter, Lone Scherfig (the ironic, witty, intelligent "Italian for Beginners") packs "Wilbur" with a number of very serious topics: suicide, terminal illness, infidelity and proceeds to deal with them in a manner that can only be described as ironic: irony with a very light, though often tragic and humane touch.
Schefig's mise en scene is thick and heavy with the detritus of her characters troubled and out-of-whack lives and even when a woman enters Wilbur and Harbour's life...the winsome Shirley Henderson as Alice things do not get much better but only more complicated.
Scherfig has crafted a very sad, troubling film about people caught up in the past who never quite grow out of that particular quagmire of guilt, shame and remorse. "Wilbur" is a difficult movie to comprehend much less love but nonetheless there is much to admire here for anyone looking for the intriguing and unusual.


Beautiful
Review date: 2006-04-17 Rating: 10 out of 10

Set in Glasgow, Wilbur is a beautiful film about love and death. Wilbur is being treated for the depression that has resulted in numerous failed suicide attempts, but despite the efforts of his older brother Harbour (Adrian Rawlins), it seems that nothing can sway his determination to end his life. When a luminous and eccentric young mother comes into the brothers' lives, things start to change - but Harbour has a secret...

The film blends warm comedy with a serious engagement with issues of love, death, depression and betrayal and is a wonderful success - it's by no means difficult to watch, but is still a film that will affect you and stay with you. A fantastic achievement.


"You'll treat her just right for me, won't you?"
Review date: 2005-05-27 Rating: 8 out of 10

Wilber Wants to Kill Himself opens with the troubled and disturbed title character Wilber (the hunky Jamie Sives), trying to gas himself in his kitchen. It's a grim premonition for what is to come, as Wilber tries to commit suicide several more times - once by hanging, and once from slashing his wrists in the bath.

He's full of pent-up attitude and anger; and he's so obnoxious that the local hospital's suicidal support group doesn't even want him attending their regular meetings any more. Even his older brother Harbour (Adrian Rawlins) isn't quite sure what to do with him. He'd like to employ Wilbur in his used bookstore, which the two siblings inherited from their late father.

Harbour would also like to be able to go a week without Wilbur having one of his suicidal "episodes." The older brother has reached the age where he wants to meet a nice girl, settle down, and have a life of his own. On the advice of Moira (Julia Davis), the support group leader and hospital nurse, Wilbur moves in with Harbour, upstairs of the bookshop.

Meanwhile, Alice (Shirley Henderson), a single mum and janitor at the hospital becomes a regular visitor at the bookstore. She keeps any discarded books she can find around the hospital and sells them at the brothers' store occasionally, hence becoming familiar with Harbour and Wilbur, more so when she interrupts one of Wilbur's suicide attempts. She and Harbour get married, only to discover Harbour has health problems too, more physical than mental.

The perpetually grumpy and snarky Wilber is gradually drawn to the sensitive Alice. He doesn't much like other girls, but there's something terribly attractive about Alice. He also finds a kindred soul in Alice's young daughter, Mary (Lisa McKinlay), whose positive attitude works wonders on him. As Wilbur becomes more involved with Alice and Mary his suicidal tendencies start diminish and he begins a new lease on life. He even encounters a suicidal stranger whom he prevents from drowning at the last moment.

Set in Glasgow, the film has a gritty and pervasive realism, which lends itself well to this type of subject matter. And it's all a lot less dour and more watchable than one might expect. Danish filmmaker Lone Scherfig instills her characters with a type of lovable, comical irony that effectively works as a counterpoint to the seriously grim subject matter.

The problem is that script is often too slow and it has a kind of a grayish, slow, and dull over all feel to it. The story takes too long to get off the ground, and Wilber's reasons for wanting to suicide in the first place are never really adequately explained. Most viewers will probably be annoyed that he's wasting money by needlessly chalking up the bill on the taxpayer funded National Health Service.

However, the movie is certainly worth watching for the appealing cast. One can almost believe that Sives and Rawlins are brothers, while the oft-used Henderson is solid, as usual. But the film isn't quite sure what it wants to be - It has the elements of either a weeping tragedy or a dark comedy, yet somehow finds a middle route that makes it neither.

Wilber Wants to Kill Himself offers an interesting approach to this controversial subject matter, and at times it is fairly didactic and edifying, but it's also strangely non-committal about most of the issues. The story is involving enough, but it doesn't really go anywhere until the last half-hour when Wilbur is forced to confront the realities of the world.

With his brother now dying and a woman with whom he has unaccountably fallen on love with, Wilber realizes that he must finally take on real responsibility, which actually comes as a bit of a shock. Thus, before our eyes we see him grow from a selfish, troubled, and petulant boy, into a conscientious, reliable, and dependable man. Mike Leonard May 05.


Product Details/Specifications


Actor(s):
Shirley Henderson
Mads Mikkelsen
Lisa McKinlay
Adrian Rawlins
Jamie Sives

Creators:
Jamie Sives (Primary Contributor)
Adrian Rawlins (Primary Contributor)
Lone Scherfig (Writer)
Gillian Berrie (Producer)
Ib Tardini (Producer)
Karen Bentzon (Producer)
Peter Aalbæk Jensen (Producer)
Sara Harkins (Producer)
Anders Thomas Jensen (Writer)

Director(s):

Recording label: Showtime Entertainment
Manufacturer: Showtime Entertainment
EAN: 9781594471599
Binding: DVD
ISBN: 1594471592
Number of items: 1
Format: Closed-captioned, Colour, DVD-Video, NTSC,
Release date: 2004-12-28
Universal product code (UPC): 758445906622
Aspect ratio: 1.33:1
Region code: 1
Running time: 109 minutes
Theatrical release date: 2002
Language: English (Original Language)

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